Fellas, let's talk...seriously. Women love to be thought of as attractive by you all. Yes, it's the reason we get our nails done, wear weaves and wigs, get the eyebrows arched, stay waxed, and so on and so on. If one tries to tell you it has nothing to do with the male species...trust me, she is lying. There is a limit however, to the extent of which we feel that you should go to get or keep our attention.
EXAMPLE:
We're at a family function today and the guest of honor's son invites a lifelong friend over. His stepdaughter is also there, who happens to be a very attractive female. The friend spends the entire time hounding her, looking for her every time she is not within his eyesight, knocking on doors to find her, asking her question after question, making sure to mention her name with every sentence he speaks, etc... even to the point of it being obvious that she was becoming quite annoyed with his antics.
Guys, if the lady is not returning the attention, she is probably not very interested in you. It's really just that simple. Especially when she knows of your ridiculous past. In this case, I'm told he used to be an abusive pimp. What's worse is that she in no way found him attractive. Which should be obvious by the fact that you're being completely ignored! Now yes, I know that people often change, and sometimes with age comes wisdom and maturity, but I highly recommend exercising that wisdom in discerning the difference between someone who is interested and someone who is not.
I decided to write this blog just to help the guys understand that, while yes we want your attention, sometimes it's just too much. Use tact, be more reserved, exude confidence, demonstrate your role as a king and you will be sure to find your queen because she will be drawn to your magnetic energy and not running from your over-bearing and smothering approach.
...Just a little advice from a Queen.
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